Gurls Gurls Gurls.....hmmmmm, you understand that i like thee, I combat y'all battles when needed, however when I see that you're flawed I have to will let you see reasons....it's in your possess excellent..
many of you tends to feel that your boyfriend(s) is liable for your maintenance <frown>
NO my darling....he is not....
Your Mommy and Daddy are liable for you, but while you get a job you're then in part accountable for yourself with some support from mommy and daddy ofcos.....
in the course of these times is when you boost that spirit of independence..
i do know many will disagree but look at it out of your boyfriends part.....he's a younger man just as you're a younger girl, he is still in university, he has a small job considering that he's still a full-time student, he has to care for himself 100 percent
many of you tends to feel that your boyfriend(s) is liable for your maintenance <frown>
NO my darling....he is not....
Your Mommy and Daddy are liable for you, but while you get a job you're then in part accountable for yourself with some support from mommy and daddy ofcos.....
in the course of these times is when you boost that spirit of independence..
i do know many will disagree but look at it out of your boyfriends part.....he's a younger man just as you're a younger girl, he is still in university, he has a small job considering that he's still a full-time student, he has to care for himself 100 percent
his siblings will commonly ask him for cash, he helps his mom and dad financially, he ought to buy books and apparel for himself, and then a female friend is stretching her hand also? Ahhhh, that's too much nau......
i'm not saying he should no longer support you financially once in a while, certain if you're in debt he must aid if he can, he can provide you with gifts, ....however to make or see him as your primary caretaker will not be fair, lets be real....he needs to save up for the next day
he needs to start getting ready for his future, how will he build his future if at a young age he is caring financially for yet another man or women that is not his youngster? notably given that it can be not assured that you two will end up been married.
if you are married, that's yet another recreation.....if you work, you and your hubby will verify how the fees are to be paid...and if you are a housewife then yes he's dependable...
however in case you are now not....i'm sorry, that young man is not responsible for you, he has to start saving his hard earn money for his own future......
I know some may say, if he cant give me money then no sex....well I say shame on you, are you selling sex? don't you also enjoy the sex? Are you only giving him sex just cos he gives you money? Do you not have self respect...him giving you because he wants and likes giving you is different from you choking him and telling him that if he cannot give you then he can't be your man.....think on this!
if you are married, that's yet another recreation.....if you work, you and your hubby will verify how the fees are to be paid...and if you are a housewife then yes he's dependable...
however in case you are now not....i'm sorry, that young man is not responsible for you, he has to start saving his hard earn money for his own future......
I know some may say, if he cant give me money then no sex....well I say shame on you, are you selling sex? don't you also enjoy the sex? Are you only giving him sex just cos he gives you money? Do you not have self respect...him giving you because he wants and likes giving you is different from you choking him and telling him that if he cannot give you then he can't be your man.....think on this!
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